I had an interesting conversation with my 14yo son this morning. He asked me to cook him some breakfast, and as I was chatting with him, I noticed from across the room that he was wearing a small button on his shirt. This is an unusual thing for Ben.
Me: What's that button on your shirt?
Ben: Nothing, it's just a button.
Me: There is something on your button. What is it?
Ben: Why do you have to give me a hard time about everything?
Me: I just want to know why you are wearing a button.
Ben: I just am, okay?
Me: So what does it say?
Ben: It's LGBT.
Me: Okay. (pause)Because today is the
day of remembrance?
Ben: What?
Me: The day of remembrance for the LGBT that have died.(well, just transgender, but at this point, I'm not really sure Ben even knows what
LGBT means.)
Ben: I'm just wearing the button.
Me: Where did you get it?
Ben: I found it on the floor in my room.
This is the first thing that made any sense in this conversation, because I remember Sophie trying to start a Gay Awareness club in her high school (long story), and Ben took her room when she went off to college. When I brought Ben is food, I got a better look at the button. It had the HRC logo with "HRC.ORG" under it. That's pretty subtle, I think - not every kid his age would know what that is. Maybe Ben does know what LGBT means.
So, I made this card for the Transgender Day of Rememberance.
The butterflies and dragonflies represent spirits that are finally free from mortal suffering. They are my favorite images for sympathy cards.
I was trying to duplicate a technique I saw
Valita demonstrate on her site - it's harder than it looks, but I love the lacy effect. The pink is a liner - it's hard to write words in a card that has holes in the front unless you put in a liner. In real life it's a much softer pink. All the shapes are punched - I used 4 different punches.
I had to enter the card in a few challenges, of course:
Crafty Emma - lace
Ellephantastic - butterfly
Alice in Wonderland - butterfly
Stamp Scrap Doodle - no flowers
Fairy tale - white
Remember, no hate!